tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post6093810872966375454..comments2023-10-01T09:13:36.386-07:00Comments on The CHA CHA FILES: Whose Wrong Whose Right – WednesdayCha Cha iz CaliSunKissedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03870421606846768014noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-6859556492749839862011-08-11T14:41:47.031-07:002011-08-11T14:41:47.031-07:001) I would just say no kids allowed.
2)No he'...1) I would just say no kids allowed.<br /><br />2)No he's not wrong for supporting his mom. However, he is wrong for not telling his wife (that's his wife,he's supposed to share those things with here) and if fear exists in the marriage then there are deeper problems than the mom and wife not getting along.<br /><br />3)Some cuts run deep and some take forever to heal so I wouldn't judge anybody that didn't attend a parent's funeral.jae octoberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15812743531934424257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-26715616215337113702011-08-11T07:59:31.242-07:002011-08-11T07:59:31.242-07:00#1
I don't think they are wrong. I know peopl...<b>#1</b><br />I don't think they are wrong. I know people who specifically state no children under a certain age at all, so limiting the number of children isn't a stretch.<br /><br /><b>#2</b><br />It would be really hard for me to marry a man whose mother didn't care for me and I don't think I could forgive myself that my man can't have a decent relationship with his mother...because she and I can't get it together. With that said, I wouldn't be mad that he paid her rent <b>THAT ONE TIME</b> and <b>as long as we were not struggling</b> and <b>as long as she isn't taking advantage</b>. <br /><br />My mother works my VERY LAST NERVE, but if she needed help paying her rent, there wouldnt be anything my husband could do to stop me from helping her...because guess where she will have to live if she gets kicked out??? o_O <br /><br /><b>#3</b><br />I don't think I fully understand. If she has unresolved issues with the father, why did this cause issues with her sister?Jazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01186973972482369982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-85210191589832170802011-08-10T13:33:30.535-07:002011-08-10T13:33:30.535-07:001. Just say NO KIDS allowed. They don't know w...1. Just say NO KIDS allowed. They don't know what the hell they're partying for anyway. They are prone to tear shit up and get in the way, and weddings are not the place for that. That's grown shit anyhow.<br /><br />2. HIS money is MY money. I wouldn't mind helping his Mom out, but he needs to negotiate that issue with me first. Hell, we'd have to have enough to pay our own rent. And if we didn't she'd be moving clean into the basement. BOOP!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-58145099230161671202011-08-10T13:33:24.529-07:002011-08-10T13:33:24.529-07:00Awwww... You all have some very awesome answers! P...Awwww... You all have some very awesome answers! Please come back next Wednesday and everyday. I appreciate the feedback!<br /><br />Cha ChaCha Cha iz CaliSunKissedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03870421606846768014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-80243160985985006542011-08-10T12:55:42.933-07:002011-08-10T12:55:42.933-07:001) It’s their wedding and their choice. It’s also ...1) It’s their wedding and their choice. It’s also my choice if I don’t want to come without both my kids.<br /><br />2) He’s wrong for not talking to her about it but not for doing it. Especially if it didn’t negatively affect their own household bills.<br /><br />3) I didn’t attend my mother’s funeral so make of that what you will.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-30254980569990269942011-08-10T12:43:05.242-07:002011-08-10T12:43:05.242-07:001) I don't know if I feel welcome if my kids a...1) I don't know if I feel welcome if my kids aren't welcome. I avoid going to my aunts BBQ's because she's afraid of dogs, and my dog rolls shotgun always. I understand pets can't go everywhere...So I don't go everywhere...Feel me? So if this were my children,,,which I don't have btw,,,Im sure the same rules would apply. I prob just wouldn't go...<br /><br />2) Ever heard of bros b4 hoes? Well mommy b4 punani...You should keep no secrets from ur partner, but if you can't get along with moms in the long run...I doubt well make it far...<br /><br />3) Go with your heart...If your heart tells you don't go...Dont go...Shes already gone...You don't have to see her dead...Her soul is out there...You can make peace with her without attending...Brendenhasbignutsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-77993444085116588832011-08-10T12:37:29.166-07:002011-08-10T12:37:29.166-07:001). Yes they were wrong. If all of the adults wil...1). Yes they were wrong. If all of the adults will be attending the reception, who will be available to watch the children (if the parents don't have a hired babysitter)?<br /><br />2). Yep, he was wrong. He's wrong for not attempting to settle the issues between his Moms and his wife. And he should be able to help his Moms with whatever she needs, without his wife tripping about it. <br /><br />3). Old girl has some serious issues. It's one thing if you have something against the father, whatever that may be. But to distance yourself away from the sister, something is definitely wrong with her.mirsmommynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-86316052269353960352011-08-10T12:29:26.678-07:002011-08-10T12:29:26.678-07:00Hey Cha Cha
1) They should say no kids at all...it...Hey Cha Cha<br />1) They should say no kids at all...it's not fair to say you can bring one kid only<br /><br />2) Depends...are they ballin? cuz if they are, who cares if he paid her rent but he should have told her because that is his wife and wives come before mothers IMO...if they aint ballin and this may cause conflict with them financially he was most def wrong. It's sad that the MIL and wife dont have enough respect for Rod to at least get along for him but some women are just b*tches and wont approve of the DIL or the MIL just because <br />3) Hell yeah Leslie is wrong as hail and she has f*cking issuesDymondnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1172177416083084921.post-4502155588167431952011-08-10T12:14:32.929-07:002011-08-10T12:14:32.929-07:001) Heck no they were not wrong. Shooo I don’t...1) Heck no they were not wrong. Shooo I don’t want a bunch of kids running around either.<br /><br />2) He was wrong for not telling her. Stand up and say hey im paying dukes rent this month. Now I can see if that was going to cause his family to suffer then no don’t do it. Wife and dukes has to get along or there will be no peace for me. Im not gonna be in the middle of two woman beef cus im gonna always side with dukes, even if she is wrong. I think most of us men do that. So they have to get along. If they got along then she wouldn’t care if he helped her and he wouldn’t be scared to say he wanted to help his mom.<br /><br />3) Not sure what happened in their childhood but I think she is wrong all the way around and needs some mental help asapAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com