HMMMMMM..........

Creep, creep creeping...................HMMM, so last week and the week before Oh JLO LO was airing out all her discretions about her soon to be Ex- Husband Marc Anthony. Jlo was saying how she left him because she had to love herself, or some dry something or another like that. If anyone ever asked my opinion about thier whole situation, I would tell you plain and simple. My take is that Jennifer only wanted to be with Marc because she wanted to have children, that is the only thing she has ever talked about. I think after she had her beautiful twins Max and Emma, she realized that Marc was not her husband after all but just someone she tolerated to get what she ulitmately wanted. Who knows, I personaly liked them together.

Recently though, Paparazzi caught up with them in the Hamptons trying to go half on another baby... I KID I KID.... Read the story here

Just because there is an impending DIVORCE does not mean they cant continue to love each other and be cordial, things dont have to always end up sheisty and greasy, ya kno.

My ex husband and I agreed to let our little marriage go, and we remain cool like we been homies and not lovers for years. Just because you marry someone that does not mean that that person was truly meant to be your life partner, you would hope that you would make the right decision the first go round, but such is life and thats not always the case. I always say my ex-husbands purpose in my life was to bring about my two beautiful children, however he was never meant to be my husband. He actually tried to tell me he wasn't the marrying type but I tricked myself in to believing that those were just words.

 Maya Angelou has a quote : "When someone shows you who they are,believe them"

 I cant say that even if I knew and understood what that meant now I would not have made the decision to marry him, but at the same time, my intention was only to do right by my children.

I wanted my daughter and son to grow up knowing that their mommy was not one of their dads many groupies/jumpoffs/ect. I wanted them to at least believe that out of all of the others, Daddy loved Mommy enough to marry her.

       You live and you learn, life moves on and you squeeze the lemons dry or something like that. The man that I am married to now is definitely the man Im supposed to be with because he was sent by GOD and I have to believe we were kismet. I wasnt looking for him and I didnt want him but he came to me with pure and unprohibited love and all he wanted was me to love him back. So even if JLo and Marc are seen together and even if their trying to figure things out, I say let them be. 

    Besides I need them together for my own selfish reasons....Have you ever seen El Catante' shyytttttt, I need a part two of that movie. Its a movie of a singer from Puerto Rico name Hector Lavoe and Marc and Jennifer portray him and his wife Pucci in the movie..... MUST SEE !

EYE LOVE YOU....

Go get your eyes checked! You would be surprised to know some of the things I learned while at my optometrist appt this past week. Turns out my left eye is lazy and has been all of my life, however because I didnt catch it when I was young my brain by the time I was probably about 7 or 8 learned to depend on my right eye thus never giving me any indication of having visionary issues. My vision used to be one of my bragging rights and I knew I had 20/20, nobody could tell me nothing. My Dr, said I probably saw very well but that is because we were not yet introduced to doing everything on the web and all this digital technology we suffer from being sick with and addicted to. It wasnt till I was about 24 and after I had my son that I realized my vision was getting weaker and weaker. I have heard however that pregnancies strip women of all things (perfect cokebottle shape, smooth skin stretch mark free, teeth, memory, mobility) to name a few, but I had no clue that it was just a matter of time that my eyes would decieve me.

My baby who is nine years old started complaining about headaches when reading and watching television when she was about 8 years old. I figured because she was active in sports that she was just possibly exhausted. It wasnt until I was watching her successfully read in a dimly lit room vs. a bright room that her headaches were attributed to her vision.  From her Drs appointment, sure enough the Dr concluded that she has *astigmatism, just as I do. Im glad that we were able to detect her vision issues earlier than later, but she will have to wear glasses because of her MAMA...unfortunately just like a lot of things she has inherited from me, this is also one of them.

*Astigmatism is an optical defect in which vision is blurred due to the inability of the optics of the eye to focus a point object into a sharp focused image on the retina.

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Black American Princess BAPS

I was on facebook and my best friend Kiana sent me a link of our favorite movie BAPS...Oh My goodness we used to live for this movie. We were so silly we knew this whole movie line for line. I hate that this movie was so underrated but it was so much fun to watch. Halle will always have a place in my heart because of this movie as well as the chick that played her BFF, Natalie Deselle. This movie came out in 1997 two years after our senior year in High School.

Jeez, the nostalgia damn near brought me to tears.

This was our ultimate favorite part

"BABY WE GOT THIS"....BOOOOOYAHHHHHHHHH

Natalie Deselle recently took a role in Madea's Big Happy Family as a controlling and disrespectul wife who later gets a wake up call when her mother passes away to honor her husband and cherish him.

HALLE......well HALLE has been here there and everywhere....HALLE BERRY is a household name. I think if we were to ask or to inquire about her biggest accomplishment thus far, she would say its definitely her 3 year old daughter Nahla.  In other news, her ex husband Eric Benet, just remarried Prince's ex Manuela Testiolini. Story Here

WHAT MOVIE MAKES YOU REMINISCE ABOUT YOUR HIGHT SCHOOL YEARS?