HMMMMMM..........

Creep, creep creeping...................HMMM, so last week and the week before Oh JLO LO was airing out all her discretions about her soon to be Ex- Husband Marc Anthony. Jlo was saying how she left him because she had to love herself, or some dry something or another like that. If anyone ever asked my opinion about thier whole situation, I would tell you plain and simple. My take is that Jennifer only wanted to be with Marc because she wanted to have children, that is the only thing she has ever talked about. I think after she had her beautiful twins Max and Emma, she realized that Marc was not her husband after all but just someone she tolerated to get what she ulitmately wanted. Who knows, I personaly liked them together.


Recently though, Paparazzi caught up with them in the Hamptons trying to go half on another baby... I KID I KID.... Read the story here



Just because there is an impending DIVORCE does not mean they cant continue to love each other and be cordial, things dont have to always end up sheisty and greasy, ya kno.

My ex husband and I agreed to let our little marriage go, and we remain cool like we been homies and not lovers for years. Just because you marry someone that does not mean that that person was truly meant to be your life partner, you would hope that you would make the right decision the first go round, but such is life and thats not always the case. I always say my ex-husbands purpose in my life was to bring about my two beautiful children, however he was never meant to be my husband. He actually tried to tell me he wasn't the marrying type but I tricked myself in to believing that those were just words.

 Maya Angelou has a quote : "When someone shows you who they are,believe them"

 I cant say that even if I knew and understood what that meant now I would not have made the decision to marry him, but at the same time, my intention was only to do right by my children.
I wanted my daughter and son to grow up knowing that their mommy was not one of their dads many groupies/jumpoffs/ect. I wanted them to at least believe that out of all of the others, Daddy loved Mommy enough to marry her.
       You live and you learn, life moves on and you squeeze the lemons dry or something like that. The man that I am married to now is definitely the man Im supposed to be with because he was sent by GOD and I have to believe we were kismet. I wasnt looking for him and I didnt want him but he came to me with pure and unprohibited love and all he wanted was me to love him back. So even if JLo and Marc are seen together and even if their trying to figure things out, I say let them be. 

    Besides I need them together for my own selfish reasons....Have you ever seen El Catante' shyytttttt, I need a part two of that movie. Its a movie of a singer from Puerto Rico name Hector Lavoe and Marc and Jennifer portray him and his wife Pucci in the movie..... MUST SEE !





7 comments:

Brendeezee said...

I can't imagine having kids was her main objective with this man. If so why not chose a better looking specimen o_O I think Jlo is rich, famous, very busy, and very hard to please just as any woman who runs an empire. Shell always be alone...Unfortunately...As will Halle...As was Elizabeth...And so on. Oprah truly chose a winner when she picked Stedman. He's her ride or die Bitch forreal forreal...Women who run corporations, Women who are at the top of male dominated industries...Its always the same...Even in movies they're depicted as coming home to an empty house, pouring a glas of wine...Thats very accurate...And for those who are able to maintain their feminity, those who don't butch it up to blend in, those who are actually beautiful...Its even tougher to find a man, not to mention keep a man. They're rich, and look good...They won't settle, they won't put up with BS, unemployed, cheating, none of that...So yeah. I don't blame Halle, I don't blame Jlo, and I applaud Oprah. Folks mock her relationship with Stedman, folks say she's gay...Whatever she may be...Shes in a relationship that stood the test of time...And correct me if I'm wrong but not once has some random woman popped up in the tabloids claiming she's polished Stedmans log...

His Mommy said...

El Cantante is my sheiiiiiit bew! Let's watch together yes? *makes googly eyes at Cha*

And lol @ Brenden. Very true tho!

Cha Cha iz CaliSunKissed said...

@ His...oh yes maam... I AM THE SINGER...I COME TO YOU TO SING..ahahaha

@ Brendan, you brought up some very valid points. I dig what your saying about JLo. As for ol Steady Stead, I would just smang him on GP because he good for it...ahahaha

Feline Feminine said...

I do like that movie Cha, and you said alot of real stuff in this post...

Don said...

Long time Poca. Wondered whatever happened to Nelly's girlfriend. Lol. Hope everything is everything.

Far as J-Lo and her husband, I believe he would be insane to divorce her unless she cheated on him. Anything besides, uncivilized. Lol.

Cha Cha iz CaliSunKissed said...

HEY DON DADA...what it do ..Yes Im still around..Good to see you finally come through...

ELove said...

My ex-wife Husband couldn't handle US Being COOL... He said "It made him feel TOO UNCOMFORTABLE that She felt So STRONGLY About Me"

I TOLD DUDE... It doesn't matter If I'm Actively in HER LIFE (Or NOT...) You'll NEVER BE ME because I was her ONE AND ONLY... That's a MOMENT IN TIME that will never be Recaptured (REAL)

She called me out of the blue about 3 years ago... I basically told her don't START NOTHING you CAN'T FINISH and to KEEP IT MOVING **LOL**

She said she just wanted to Hear My Voice but I KNOW Better... She wanted some of THIS Good-AZZ Dyck (She Can't FOOL ME!!!)